I've read Satyarth Prakash and my religious notions held for decades were shaken. I need to know answers to following questions. Please anyone help me out.

If Vedas say God is unborn formless, how Rama and Krishna were born?

In Sundarkand also God is said to be formless and infinite, how could Rama in earthily bodily form fulfil these conditions.

In Gita, why importance is given on feeding priests for the dead person's soul, while Vedas are strictly against any such practice. How Gita and Vedas are in conflict?

Why chanting name of God would bring relief to a person, even Vedas don't support this practice.

Why giving donation to temple is held as a good practice? Why would God like to be given alms when he alone is the giver of everything.

I've read Satyarth Prakash and my religious notions held for decades were shaken. I need to know answers to the following questions.

1. If Vedas say God is unborn formless, how were Rama and Krishna born?

2. In Sundara Kanda of Valmiki Ramayana also, God is said to be formless and infinite, how could Rama in earthly bodily form fulfill these conditions?

3. In Gita, why importance is given to feeding priests for the dead person's soul, while Vedas are strictly against any such practice. Is Gita in conflict with the Vedas?

4. Why chanting name of God would bring relief to a person, when Vedas don't support such a practice?

5. Why giving donation to temple is held as a good practice? Why does God want to be given alms when he alone is the giver of everything?