This question contains a link to a blog which tries to prove that the position of a Hindu woman is not that respectful in the society.
One of the points it makes is that a Hindu woman can't choose a husband for herself. It has to be her father's choice always.
But, we know from Puranas and Itihasas, that for Kshatriyas at least a bride can be Swayamvara. That is, she can choose a husband of her choice among many suitors. So, its not that difficult to debunk this particular claim by that blog.
But my question is slightly different. I want to know if Vedas support the concept of a bride choosing a husband for herself or not.