The following is an excerpt from the monthly journal Prabuddha Bharata published by the Ramakrishna Order. This indicates they don't view the homosexual person in bad light. And it's much more important for a spiritual aspirant to have an asexual orientation.
EDITORIAL
Beyond Bodies
... ...
The restraint of the senses becomes important
in our spiritual lives in that it helps us to take our
mind away from our body and fix it on our destination,
the Atman. Almost all bodily pursuits
are playgrounds for the senses. And the most active
and titillating to the senses is the playground
of bodily contact, the playground of sex. No true
spiritual tradition or spiritual teacher would say
that sexual activity or sexuality in the past disqualifies
a person from becoming a spiritual aspirant.
All the same, no true spiritual tradition or spiritual
teacher would say that sexual activity or sexuality
is the spiritual path. That is the most convenient
stand one can take. Just because I cannot control
the senses, just because I cannot control the sexual
urge does not mean that I be controlled by the
senses and that I be urged by sexuality. Sexuality is
not spirituality. One's sexual orientation or sexual
preferences have nothing to do with spirituality. If
that were true, then cats, dogs, and rabbits would
have been the most spiritual. And rabbits would
have been spiritual seers! The Atman and the
senses, God and the senses, cannot be worshipped
together. You are either spiritual or sexual. You
cannot be both. The world has seen thousands of
centuries of spiritual and religious life but is yet to
see a person who could control one's internal and
external environments through the power of spirituality
and yet thrived in expressing one's sexuality.
You would have to put off one to get the other.
Spirituality is the search for our true nature. It
is a path open and inevitable to all of us. Sexuality
is the expression of one's carnal desires. This is a
trait primitive and instinctual in all of us but it is
not inevitable. Spiritual life is for everyone. Even
for people who had a sexual expression or a distinct
sexual orientation. But, if one has to become
spiritual one has to leave one's sexuality or sexual
orientation. Just like the satisfaction one gets
from eating one's favourite food after a long time
is not spiritual illumination, understanding or
finding one's natural sexual orientation is not spiritual
realisation. If it were so, all the spiritual traditions
would become big lies and all one would
need to become spiritual was a session with one's
therapist! Spirituality or self-realisation is not just
'coming out of the closet'. It is going beyond all
orientations, not finding another one.
To set upon the journey of spirituality, the
journey to realise one's true nature, is an informed
choice. It is a state when you want to go beyond
the body, beyond all orientations. We should remember
that just like there are heterosexual and
homosexual orientations, there is an asexual orientation,
the orientation of the spiritual aspirant,
who does not want to be bogged down by the pulls
of the flesh but wants to transcend them and realise
one's transcendent nature, the Atman.
Prabuddha Bharata or Awakened India
A monthly journal of the Ramakrishna Order started by Swami Vivekananda in 1896
September 2015, Vol. 120, No. 9
From the same journal (January, 2011):
The Practice of Modern Yoga: Sri Ramakrishna's Four Contributions
Dr Christopher Key Chapple
Deconstruction of Gender Identity
...
On several occasions I have assigned Christopher
Isherwood's My Guru and His Disciple to
my university classes. This narrative includes the
author's own struggle to overcome homoerotic
urges. Reflecting a general acceptance of gender
ambiguity, his guru Swami Prabhavananda
quietly advised him to see the face of God in
the object(s) of his affection. This advice, given
at a time when homosexuals were arrested, imprisoned,
and subjected to harsh treatments,
including electric shock therapy, came as great
solace to Isherwood. His friend and neighbour
UCLA psychologist Dr Evelyn Hooker, inspired
in part by Isherwood's honesty and fine human
qualities, undertook a path-breaking study
proving that homosexuals were often mentally
well-adjusted and productive members of society.
Her research eventually resulted in the declassification
of homosexuality as an illness by
the American Psychiatric Association in 1974
and the decriminalization of homosexual acts
in most states in the US—and most recently in
the Indian capital territory as well.
Classical India has long accepted the notion
of a 'third sex', napumsaka, and has tolerated
the existence of non-standard gender identity
communities, the hijra. A small but not insignificant
community of Vedanta and yoga practitioners
in the US have taken inspiration from
Christopher Isherwood. More than one student
has confided in me the relief they have
felt when they discovered a model for spirituality
that did not condemn their sexual orientation.
As a professor, however, it is my duty to
remind them that true spirituality lies beyond
all identities.