I have read at a Hinduism website (Website Link) that the word "Kanyadhaana" is misinterpreted into meaning "Donating the bride"

According to the web article:

It's not "Kanya-Dhaana" but "Kanya-Aadhana"

Here, Kanya means "Daughter/Girl" And Aadhana means "receive" So basically "Kanyadhaana" translates to "Receiving the bride" and NOT "Donating the bride".

Women's rights activists argue that Kanyadhaana means donating the bride and girls being humans are not objects/ commodities that can be "donated" to the groom's family.

I'm confused here. What is the real meaning of Kanyadhaana? Is it "Kanya-aadhana" or "Kanya-dhaana" itself?

  • it is kanya-daan. the bride is donated. the reward for donating a kanya to a vaidika brahmachari groom is brahma-loka – mar Feb 3 '19 at 16:21
  • if u relay meant the word used in Q title i.e. Kanyadhana then it's meaning is girl's patrimonial riches.. – YDS Jun 25 '19 at 17:06

The word is KanyA dAna and not what you said also it is not DH but D..

See Manu Smriti 3.29:

एकं गोमिथुनं द्वे वा वरादादाय धर्मतः ।
कन्याप्रदानं विधिवदार्षो धर्मः स उच्यते ॥ २९ ॥

ekaṃ gomithunaṃ dve vā varādādāya dharmataḥ |
kanyāpradānaṃ vidhivadārṣo dharmaḥ sa ucyate || 29 ||

When the maiden is given away in due accordance with rule, after taking, in odedience to law, from the bridegroom, one or two pairs of cow and bull,—this is called the “Ārṣa” form.’—(29).

KanyA DAna and KanyA PradAna of course have the same meaning.

  • "A bride is given to the groom's family and that family gives a pair of cow or bull to the bride's family." regarding that statement what is the right way to interpret that statement? Should I interpret it as- a girl is given to the groom's family and the family gives the bull as a "present" to the bride's family. Or should I interpret it as the girl is exchanged for cow or bull? Feminists state the later interpretation and argue that since a girl is exchanged for bull she is treated as a commodity and this way Manu Smriti objectifies women. So please tell me how do I interpret that statement. – Somanna Feb 3 '19 at 17:43
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    No it's not an exchange by any means .. it is just a part of the rituals .. @Somanna – Rickross Feb 4 '19 at 4:55
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    @Somanna And Dharma is represented as bull in Hindu scriptures. – Triyugi Narayan Mani Feb 4 '19 at 11:32

It's actually


The giving away of the bride (daughter) to the groom is called the ritual of Kanyadan. 

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    Welcome to hinduism! While answering, kindly cite sources! – Parabrahman Jyoti Feb 4 '19 at 2:32

Its kanyaa-daana. Meaning offering a daughter. Daana comes from the root "Da" which means to give or offer. The bridegroom in our ageold Culture is called Vara which means Varaniya. This is our culture. You are free to differ, but in that case you will have to reject the word.

  • @Somanna no, not free to differ if the meaning you provide is absurd or impossible. – user17294 Feb 3 '19 at 16:48
  • @Somanna then you should make your question clear – user17294 Feb 3 '19 at 16:51

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