Dharma Sastras deal primarily with societal issues and the problem is that many of their views are obsolete. Some of their views were rejected in Hindu scripture many centuries ago. I have given below the attitude towards women in Manu Smriti.
EXAMPLE of rejection
- Her father protects (her) in childhood, her husband protects (her) in youth, and her sons protect (her) in old age; a woman is never fit
for independence.
Manu Smriti 9.3
Polemicists have a great day attacking Manu Smriti 9.3 and establishing Sanatana Dharma as misogynistic. They, however, never point out that there is an opposite view expressed in Hindu scripture on the very same topic.
Devi Bhagavata Purana V.XVII
The lady Mandodari refuses to marry because she refuses to accept dependence. Some of Dharma Sutra views were obsolete even 1000 years ago.